Tara Tainton

Why We Masturbate & The Endless Ways to Do It

Written by Tara Tainton

Friday, 19 May 2006 23:00

All right, girls. It's time to expand your self-conceived techniques, update your orgasm potential, and try something new! May is Masturbation Month... I hope you've been having private celebratory moments throughout the month already. Now, you can add a few new ways to have a "self party," thanks to my current read, Olivia St. Claire's 227 Ways to Unleash the Sex Goddess Within.

Boys, don't just skip this blog entry; the cleverest of you will realize the supreme worth of the information disclosed below. Imagine all the new ways to pleasure your female lover with your surprisingly skilled hands or even your own tongued techniques adapted from Olivia's suggestions below. After all, this is a list of the ways other women touch themselves, the techniques they've created all on their own as young girls or experienced women. And I'm almost ashamed to admit that it didn't occur to me that there were so many variations of female masturbation, ones I'd never thought of or wouldn't have developed myself.

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This is really good stuff, and I'm definitely passing this chapter of my new read over to my own male lover so that I can gain the feel of these women-proven methods by his hands as well. But first, let's remember what Masturbation Month is all about, why it is extremely natural, healthy, and necessary for all of us to explore ourselves and bring all that private pleasure.

227 Ways to Unleash the Sex Goddess Within does an excellent job of encouraging us to masturbate. The more frequently, the better. Self-pleasuring...

Is the single most important thing you can do to become a truly great lover.
Makes you feel sexy.
Puts you in touch with your body.
Strengthens and increases the flexibility of your love muscle.
Teaches you how to have orgasms - lots of them - easily and quickly.
Puts you in control of your own pleasure.
Leads to self-confidence in all areas of life.
Is the key to overcoming sexual guilt and self-repression.
Promotes health, well-being, and energy.
Reduces stress and tension.
Helps you sleep.
Allows you to continue feeling good when you or your sex organs are in a delicate condition.
Increases vaginal lubrication and lessens the discomfort of dryness as you grow older.
Provides relief from menstrual cramps.
Enhances lovemaking with your partner.
Is the ultimate in safe sex.
Is always available.
Is one fo the very best ways to unleash your inner sex goddess/god.

Before you begin a little self-indulgence, don't forget that even a little self-play is reason enough to bring out all the toys, props, scents, lighting, and other goodies and atmospheric enhancements. Consider oils, towels, a hand-mirror, lingerie, wine, perfume, candles, sensual foods, music, erotic pictures, movies, or reads, pillows, and sex toys. And don't forget that every inch of your body is part of the event, deserves attention, and adds to your pleasure.

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Here are a few ideas written by Olivia herself or described by her fellow female friends and sensual acquaintances. For the full, titillating chapter of suggestions, check out 227 Ways to Unleash the Sex Goddess Within for yourself.

#55: "Most women enjoy the comforting feeling of cupping their entire pubic mound in one hand. Press and massage gently in circles, from side to side, or back and forth. Knead it like bread. Shake it gently. Recall the feeling of your man's pelvis pumping against this fleshy mound."

#56: "Still holding your pubis tenderly like a ripe fruit, press your outer vaginal lips together. Then caress them gently up and down so that they begin to open up and expose the most inner lips. Continue this up-and-down motion, occasionally reaching farther down to include your perineum in one long sensuous stroke over it and your inner lips."

#62: "While holding your vaginal area, move your hips around in circles. Undulate like a snake... Keep your hand loose enough so that your pelvic motions cause it to slide slightly around your moving around. I have a very modest friend who claims that pretending she's a rock star and flagrantly thrusting her hips around frees her wilder, lustier self to come out of hiding. So, with her hand suggestively placed over her naked sex, this is how she begins every self-pleasuring session."

#66: "Experiment with various kinds of touch and rhythms - light feathery pats, gentle massage, firm steady pressure, intense rubbing, playful love slaps, fast circles, slow back-and-forth movements, languid strokes alternating with quick taps, rolling motions, pinches, vibrating with your hands or fingers. When you find a touch that really lights your fire that days, stay with it for a while. As you explore your own key rhythms and touches, sense the wetness seeping into your loins."

#68: "Like my friend Bess, a forty-something banker, you might like to try taking hold of the shaft of your clitoris with thumb and forefinger. Roll it between the fingers. Pull on it. Move it up and down. Squeeze. Release. Roll it again. Try using two different fingers, or the fingers of your two hands. Bess says, "I need a lot of stimulation, and somehow this direct, forceful handling really gets my body humming."

#70: "I always wondered why the women in X-rated movies frequently use both hands to stretch their outer lips wide before provocatively stroking themselves. Often we think that their immodest actions are meant only to provide better sight lines or are done purely for the benefit of some debauched man. But I've found that, as usual, women are much smarter than that... Because, yes, they drive men crazy, but more important, they feel great. Through personal experimentation, I've learned that spreading your love lips open the way these women do makes the sensitive skin of your clitoris feel deliciously exposed and taut.

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| 2009-12-14 00:15

michael g.b. 05/20/2006 09:18 PM
this would all be beyond me . . . i'm all hands! :)

Tara, your Self-Pleasuring WebMistress 05/20/2006 09:23 PM
Since when is "being all hands" a bad thing when it comes to exploring the body of another?? :)

Enigma 05/29/2006 12:30 AM
I just did a post that had a few thoughts and questions about masturbation. What amazed me was both the comments and the huge number of emails I recieved from folks that answered my questions. I appreciate you sharing - I like variety as do my partners. - Enigma

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