Tara Tainton

What's Sexier Than Sharing Your Spouse?

Written by Tara Tainton

Sunday, 14 August 2005 23:00

Cuckolding. It's an ancient term but not a practice of the past. No, it's quite common, quite the turn-on, and quite modern. Who says a traditionally monogamous relationship has to be truly monogamous? Or that a partner has to sneak around to be unfaithful?

Cuckolding involves a man, the cuckold or cuck, who has a wife who has sexual relations with other men. The wife is the "hotwife" or cuckoldress while the man is the one being cuckolded or cucked. Traditionally, the term "cuckold" is derogatory as it implies a helpless, humiliated husband who can't stop his wife's infidelity and is too cowardly to leave her. And the modern take? That one would choose to be cuckolded of course.

About.com does a great job of explaining the more modern form of cuckolding as a desired sexual practice.

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Who hasn't fantacized about their partner being with another or the ability to play around freely in a relationship while one's partner actually encourages it or is even turned on by it all? There are so many variations on sexual play, most of which I'm only now realizing, that every day confirms for me that the possibilities are endless, the play is endless, and the fun will never ever stop. So, why stop before welcoming "cheating" into your committed relationship?

What are the elements and themes that make cuckolding so appealing to so many? There's definitely the aspect of submission and domination: the wife is supposedly the dominate one while the husband is being taken advantage of...much to his delight. Mix in a little welcomed humiliation, jealousy, voyeurism, exhibitionism, fear, and that mystery factor, and you've got a practice with endless surprise and potential.

Like every other dynamic, relationship, practice, or community in the adult world these days, those to learn from, play with, or befriend can be found on the internet. Experienced cuckold himself, Clayton Holiday, recommends the Our HotWives Forum for some very direct and lively cuckolding discussion and education. And watch out...cuckolded husbands or wannabes greatly outnumber those hotwives, as usual. Ah, it's great to be a woman!

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Check out the Our HotWives Cuckold's Guide for a little how-to.

The Tribe.net network offers a variety of sub-tribes devoted solely to the cuckold lifestyle. Step in to lay out all your own questions or concerns or share your experiences and stories. I, for one, am there to learn from the masters.

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| 2009-12-02 22:25

W. S. Cross 08/17/2005 05:42 PM
Well, Tara, you've certainly been busy lately. The people at the Hot Wife Blog are lovely, and were early supporters of my novel. And why not, since it celebrates many of the same things they do. But it's fascinating how random sexual impulses of the Sexual Revolution have now become codified into fetishes and categories. It's enough to make my poor head swim.

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