| This One's for the Boys |
| Written by Tara Tainton | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Thursday, 02 April 2009 17:07 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Alas, I have found my calling. Well, not that I have just one... Only recently, did I discover a direction I'm supposed to explore, a role I can carry out quite well, a veritable need in the sexual world that I can ideally fulfill. It came to me in the form of a radio broadcast, a discussion between DJs on the subject of cougars on the prowl. I haven't paid too much attention to younger men. I haven't had a relationship with one since I was in high school and those boys one or two grades behind me seemed so appealing to an extremely shy girl who preferred to avoid her platonic male friendships with those in her own grade getting mixed up in complicated and icky romantic relationships. A solder boy two years older than my 17-year-old self changed all that. We met in SCUBA class and became much more than just "dive buddies." Alas... those older guys, more mature, sexually experienced and forward, more assertive and confident, and more knowledgeable about the world itself, won my attention over younger boys. I haven't looked back since... my longest relationships have all been with men two to four years older than myself with a few just at my same age. Until recently. I know what I like, what turns me on, and what gets my panties all wet... but newfound singledom has a way of making you reconsider the world and all sexual possibilities and connections.... which is a great thing. I thought, "what the hey?" and jumped in head first, testing the waters with a boy a full 10 years younger. He appealed to me for all the reasons he was opposite to what I'd known, been turned on by, and had relationships with in the past. I wanted a taste of something new.
I got just that and so much more. We hung out a few times, fucked a few times, had long conversations about our past relationships and our dreams for the future, and in the end, we disagreed on way too much. I don't attribute the differences in our relationship wants, sexual styles, and life philosophies or even communication styles to the age difference but... my single dip into the pool of younger fish satiated my need to let out a line and leave any bait available in that same pool again. Eh. Although, I don't attribute our clashing of personalities or views and my inability to make him able to understand or even believe what comes out of my mouth to the age difference, it all can be attributed to the age difference. Therein, Tara withdrew from the names in the hat for the younger boys to draw from. No more considering them when they plead for my attention on hookup sites online and no more trying to force myself to pay any attention to them when out. It's the aged men that appeal to me... the ones with life experience, travel tales, independence, true confidence, and lives they've cultivated over time to match their personal needs and wants to a T. Ah, poor boys. I know you try so hard, I know the younger girls just can't compare, and I know full well the tight little hot little lean little untouched little bodies you sport around in that really do deserve to be despoiled endlessly. You're little fucking machines, and I'd love to tap that but... can you match my wit, entertain me, and impress me without annoying the hell out of me? Of course, you can. But I'd logged off and bowed out. Until yesterday. The chatter between two DJs caught my attention as I was flipping through local radio stations. The term "cougar" caught my attention and made my ears perk up. After all, I embody the label as one of those hot older women with confidence, assertiveness, and a voracious sexual drive... aside from the purposeful preying on younger men. I stayed tuned in and paid close attention... To my surprise, the conversation was about the myth of the cougar, the idea that there isn't actually a significant proportion of young men in the world actively seeking or actually preferring to date and relate with older women. The DJs reported that two large dating sites catering to no specific dating genre had organized events specifically for cougars to be matched with the young boys seeking their affections... and the events had to be canceled as there weren't nearly enough volunteers signing up. With that, the sites and the DJs concluded that cougars aren't the hot commodity or growing commonality in the dating world once thought. A pretty dramatic conclusion considering the lack of substantial facts to formulate one on. In reply, the radio station started receiving calls from young guys, really young guys, across the greater Las Vegas area confirming that cougars are indeed one super hot commodity. They all had fantasy-like experiences to share, great tales of how they were extremely attracted to extremely hot and much older women who had so much to teach and show and share. The eager-to-learn boys stuck around as long as their much older lovers would have them. One boy was quick to negate the female DJ's assumption that the older woman / younger man relationship is only sexual and can't possibly offer anything more to either party. He said, "no, you have no idea how refreshing it is to be able to sit down with an older woman an actually have a conversation. They have so much experience and so much to share. Girls my age don't even know how to hold a conversation." I listened to the young 20-somethings talk up older women, story after story, and realized they'd all gained so much from those experiences and relationships... advantages to benefit the female population in general as well as the future relationships of those men themselves. They'd all learned that women are sexy, hot, attractive, fun, entertaining, full of energy, and sexually energized for years, decades, ages past their supposed "prime" as the media would have us all believe. And how tremendously fantastic is that? These boys fond of cougars know something that most of the world won't admit, something that even their own older male counterparts don't always realize themselves. Women are hot, women are incredible, no matter what age they are. And how could I take myself out of that monumental opportunity to educate - even change - the world for the better by deeming myself unavailable to the younger men of the world and refusing to offer myself as a gracious and sexy teacher, mind, body, and soul? No, I'm now up for the challenge! I need to make myself available to this up and coming-of-age generation of men to further open their eyes to the beauty of women while also ensuring they remain forever open-minded to the future relationships presented to them, the women who will come and go from their lives, and even in teaching their fellow men to realize the ageless desirability and offerings of women. I now have a mission! The second "sign" of my new sexual purpose came just this afternoon. As soon as I turned on the television, a documentary special on cougar celebrities begun. Okay, boys. I'm no longer going to ignore you. I understand what you want, and I know the ways in which I, as an older woman, can enlighten you...
3.23 Copyright (C) 2007 Alain Georgette / Copyright (C) 2006 Frantisek Hliva. All rights reserved." |
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