Tara Tainton

From the conversation among the Playgirls online, it's obvious that most of us are still just as eluded by the idea of a vaginal orgasm as opposed to a clitoral one and the concept of the G-spot as a whole. Yet, the proof of their mutual existence is there; the girls have discovered their own and taunt the rest with their amazing stories. Luckily, they've been kind enough to share the secrets they've found to discovering "the right spot," the appropriate tools for the task, and the general scenario to create for the discovery process. When it comes down to it, we're all outspoken, proud of our sexuality, and eager to encourage the seeking of pleasure within the rest of womankind. Yes, I've been learning a lot and I can't wait till that first new toy arrives in the mail so I can hand it over to my partner and watch the smile appear on his face as he thinks up ways to use it on me...and himself.

The verdict is that, as a woman, you owe it to yourself to discover this seeming magical spot within your own body to delight you and your partners with new playtime experiences and heights of pleasure. Every woman deserves mind-blowing orgasms and their partners deserve to partake in helping them achieve them. Sadly, I can only say I've had one vaginal orgasm, actually an accident during normal intercourse. I just remember suddenly feeling the usual tingles, but deeper inside and without any contact with my clit. The orgasm was deep and far-reaching enough to deliver an orgasm longer and stronger than usual. Another time, my lover's probing fingers found a special spot deep within me that we were stimulating together for hours, only to practically pass out due to exchaustion considering we'd already worn out every other muscle in our bodies.

Teenwire explains the difference in orgasm possibilities like this: "Although some researchers believe there is just one type of female orgasm, others believe that stimulation of these two parts of the genitals can cause different types of orgasm. During a clitoral orgasm, the vagina becomes longer; it causes a pocket to be formed beneath the uterus. During a vaginal orgasm, the uterus drops lower and shortens the vagina. Stimulation of both the vagina and clitoris can cause a blended orgasm, the third type of orgasm. All these orgasms may feel different from each other" ("Some Facts on Female Orgasm"). The Go Ask Alice feature by the Health Services at Columbia defines, "The difference between a "clitoral" and a "vaginal" orgasm is where you are being stimulated to achieve orgasm, not where you feel the orgasm. That may clear up some of the confusion around your questions. The clitoris has a central role in elevating feelings of sexual tension. During sexual excitement, the clitoris swells and changes position. The blood vessels through the whole pelvic area also swell, causing engorgement and creating a feeling of fullness and sexual sensitivity. Your inner vaginal lips swell and change shape. Your vagina balloons upward, and your uterus shifts position" ("Difference Between Vaginal and Clitoral Orgasm").

Some medical resources point out that the clitoris is actually mostly hidden well beneath the body's surface, even expanding out in an area of nerve endings clustered beneath the protruding clit that can be as large as the palm of your hand. Supposedly, the infamous G-spot is just the underside of the clitoral region, reachable through the vagina. The bottom line? It feels good, and it should be explored!

So, men, if you haven't figured it out by now, don't believe anyone who says the lack of your partner achieving a vaginal orgasm is your fault. To easily create one, you and your partner would each have to be shaped in compatible ways, for your dick to be able to reach that one spot inside her vagina and rub it in all the right ways. There's little chance of that, so that's where your deft hands and an assortment of toys come in to play.

Here are the suggestions that the multiply orgasmic Playgirls listed for adding to the bedroom toy chest:

• Any toy with rotating beads and a vibrating shaft
• Combining Asian Ben-Wa balls with a jelly vibe

• Any toy with rotating beads in the shaft, a movable head, and vibrating clit stimulation
• In the Pink, a G-spot dildo made of acrylic (suggested by Sarah, my pal and frequent commenter on my blogs)

Go have fun, and then tell me all about it!

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