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Now, I'm a girl that loves to express myself.
I'm a writer! I like to "use my words" in written form as well as in midst
of the act. After all, language was designed for us to better communicate
and interact with those around us and make more meaningful connections.
When it comes to playing, I tend to be....ahem, not so quiet. I
want to show what I'm feeling and for my lover to have the benefit of the
same. In fact, here's a recommendation for you silent lovers (expecially you
men!) out there: let it all out!! What's the point of keeping it all bottled
up? You might as well just keep your fluids to yourself as well. Sex is
about sharing...everything. Don't limit the experience!
Despite my usual habits and preferences, I find myself lately in a
situation where my lover and I aren't exactly alone most of the time.
Now, I have been traveling a great deal in the past two years and in some
pretty odd situations and often, my desire for pleasure has been a higher
priority than politeness. Let's just say, I don't always mind others being
near if that's the only way things can be. A girl's gotta do what a girl's
gotta do.
But I'm now trying to be polite at the moment and be quiet in the act, as
hard as it is. So, in the midst of playing around in the darkness last
night, a few more ideas for how to keep your tongue tied during sex came to
mind...
- Keep your tongue
occupied as much
as possible. If you're orally occupied, you can't exactly
scream.
- Keep your mouth filled. These
tips are great, aren't they? Just use your mouth in the midst of play
more than you normally might. You know, your lover, especially if he's a
man, may really get off on you sucking on his finger while he's
immitating the act with other parts of your bodies.
- Take this opportunity to play more with
gags. You know what I mean: a
scarf comfortably tied around your lover's head and between the lips or
even a red rubber ball and leather straps.
- Stay away from the blindfolding
though. Surprise feelings and touches are going to cause a surprise
squelch as well.
- Muffle your pleasure outcries with a
pillow.
- Have a little bite play. Again,
the key is to keep the mouth occupied and the moans and groans muffled.
Nibble, bite down, or nip depending on your lover's tastes.
- Do it in a new location. If you have the option, maybe you can remove yourself from the
silent surroundings and take the opportunity to find an exotic location
to play. Try the apartment building's rooftop, the nearby park, your car
parked outside, or run a loud shower and bathe each other.
If you have your own tips for silent sex,I'd love to hear them!
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