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Sex During Your Period
Written by Tara Tainton   
Sunday, 13 November 2005 23:00
It's often shunned, definitely socially taboo, and sometimes even feared. It can be messy, but it can be done. Yet, so many of us don't or just prefer not to. What's the real scoop on having sex on your period? Are there really any concerns?

The SexHerald staff wrote an excellent article on the subject: "Sex During Menstruation as a Taboo: More than Misogynistic Tendencies?" Never have I come across so much information about a sexual topic that I've always wondered about but never taken the time to actually research. In fact, I didn't even realize the depth of my own habit of shunning sex during my period until I was reading about others doing the same.

Yeah, I've done it...a few times in fact. Still, when it's period time, I do feel a little unclean, even fresh out of the shower. And that can inhibit my usual welcoming of my partner's advances. Yet, I'm also oddly horny during that time, even more so than usual, and I'm ready to jump a man at the first sign of cramps. Especially if the man's just given me a gift of chocolate knowing full well that it soothes me during that monthly occasion like nothing else.

I've laid down a towel in preparation for any "extra lubrication" during some good old cock and pussy action during menstruation. And I've still never witnessed any actual mess. Still, I did proudly stain my lover's mattress in New Zealand when I fell asleep after sex and forgot to reinsert a tampon. And I've seen a slightly reddened cock or two in my time at the moment of separation after some fantastic sex.

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Still, I feel a little out of line even describing the experience of having a period to begin with. But why?? It's just a natural part of life, another normal bodily function. It's just a little blood. Big deal. I can talk about it, but most others don't and definitely not publicly. It's high time we get some real answers about the actual act of sex during a woman's period: the good, the bad, and any possible ugly.

When it comes down to it, we all (as consenting adults) ought to be having a little more sex, whenever and however we wish.

We've heard the history. We do know why sex during menstruation is taboo even today in the western world where cleanliness is the norm and even STDs are kept at a minimum. The Qur'an and Bible both state that menstruating women should never be touched by a man due to her impurity and uncleanliness. Men are still reluctant to do the same today, and women are a bit skeptical as well.

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Thankfully, real research has been done to address our uncertainties. The fact is that, between two healthy adults, sex during menstruation poses no actual threat. It's just a little different. Disadvantages during that time would be that a woman's lubrication is changed during that period, and a little extra lubrication may be needed to keep things going smoothly. And besides the realization of sexually transmitted infections, be aware that others are transmitted through the blood as well. So, using protection during that time with a new or untested partner is a must.

While there may not be any health benefits to having sex during that time, there are benefits. There are always benefits to having more sex. Orgasms may help alleviate some of the standard period symptoms; it all depends on the woman and her own experience. Yes, coming can help cramps, bloating, fatigue, and mood swings go away.

So, grab a towel, maybe some baby wipes for easy clean up, and a condom if you and your partner don't test free of STIs.


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Anonymous | 2009-12-03 15:32
William Ferrell 12/01/2005 03:57 PM
Two women I've been with -- my ex-wife, and the first girlfriend who followed after her -- have let me have sex with them during their periods. I love it -- the "texture," scent, even the tightness is different. Giving my lover an orgasm during her period is one of the best gifts I can give her; like you said, it helps with the cramps and the mood -- not just because of the orgasm itself, but because even during her period, she realizes I think she's the sexiest creature alive. The woman I'm seeing now wasn't quite ready to take that step with me; in time I hope to earn her trust enough to try that. She did mention not wanting to mess up her Ralph Lauren towels :P So I suppose next month I should bring one of my ratty old towels to offer up :)

Tara, your Always-Ready WebMistress 12/01/2005 08:08 PM
So glad you commented on this topic, Will. We need more male voiced to confirm this often taboo act is A-okay. :) ...and so good and fun for all involved. :) And thanks for adding the male's experience with sex during period time; I had no idea of the differences for him. Great to know!

Terry 01/04/2006 08:06 PM
I have fond memories of sex with my girlfriend Mo. She was so horny when she was on her periods, there was little I could do but help her out. weI remember once looking around afterwords and seeing red spray allover the bed she had really cum! It was always great sex, and I encourage all couples to expirience it.

Tara, your Insatiable WebMistress 01/05/2006 12:54 AM
Ah, Terry, that sounds fantastic! Thanks for your positive opinion and personal story. Now, I want to experiencing that evidenced spraying orgasm too! :) xoxo
carol | 2012-04-12 13:39
yes we do , my husband and i have been having sex on my periods since i stopped taking the 4 years ago. since i switched to using a diaphragm for birth control we have a lot of sex when i am on my period. most of the time we dont use any protection just go for it and it is messy. and i usually have to douche afterwards. but there are times when i just pull out my tampon and put my diaphragm in and there is hardly no blood at all. i really have some good orgasms doing it on my period.
Tara | 2012-04-15 08:28
Oooh, Carol... that sound awesome! Thank you for the input and happy sexy period time!!
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