Anal Adventure from a Woman's Perspective

Written by Tara Tainton

Wednesday, 03 August 2005 23:00

Anal sex is certainly viewed differently on the receiving end, whether it's a woman's or a man's tight-end we're talking about. There's plenty of anal info from the penetrator's standpoint, but it's the receiver's tips that offer the best advice. After all, if both of you aren't enjoying what's going on, you'll likely not get the chance to partner up in an anal way again.

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Try a few different positions. Sexuality.org, "the society for human sexuality," lists a few anal sex positions to give a go:

The most basic is for your lover to be on their back, legs spread and/or knees pulled up. Put a pillow or two under their butt...this is a big help that's easily overlooked. In one way this is the most awkward of the positions, but it can be the easiest for your lover.
Another is for your lover to be on elbows and knees, as for doggie style sex. This is easier for access, but it also tends to require your lover to tighten their butt muscles a bit. This may work better if your lover has some support under their chest/belly to lean on, so they can relax more, and possibly even so they can lean forward a little, extending their legs out and to the side behind them, which might put things at an easier angle for access.
A third position is for them to be on their side. Their legs need to be in a scissors position, perhaps the upper one extended in front of them and the other straight "down" (as if they were standing), else the upper leg drawn up toward the chest or straight upward (bent, either way), and the lower leg in whatever position is comfortable.

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